My Grandmother loves St Patrick’s Day. If it were up to her, she would have St Patrick’s Day everyday of the year.
She boast at how friendly, warm, and funny the Irish are. She wears her “Irish Mom” sweatshirt and shamrock skirt with pride. Nothing is as nourishing as a thick slice of Irish Soda Bread smeared think with butter. She will march up to any store clerk and some how work into the conversation that she comes from County Cork. She hums to herself constantly the theme song from The Quiet Man.
The truth is she is a ¼ Irish at best. But for some reason or another she really identifies with that part of her heritage.
My Grandmother is in the early stages of dementia. The more her mind goes, the more she strongly holds on to her Irish identity. It somehow grounds her.
Belonging to something is nice-comforting.
I am so thankful she has this. I am so grateful St. Patrick’s Day lets her feel connected and whole.
I am even less Irish then she but in her honor I will call myself Irish today. I am glad I belong in part to the Irish: even more glad to belong in part to her.
Namaste
Krissy